CUSTOM FIRST DANCE CHOREOGRAPHY + WEDDING DANCE LESSONS
San Francisco Wedding Dance Lessons for a First Dance That Feels Like You
You don’t need dance experience to have a wedding dance that feels confident, connected, and completely your own.
At Steps to Love®, we create custom first dance choreography and personalized wedding dance lessons for couples who want more than a memorized routine. Whether you want something simple and romantic, an unforgettable surprise performance, or a dance that includes your favorite people, we’ll help you create a moment that fits your relationship, your wedding, and your comfort level.
No dance experience? Two left feet? Nervous about being the center of attention? You’re exactly who we work with.
View our packages below!
Honestly, our dance was the best part of the entire wedding. It turned into something that we have forever. And the process Erin guided us through while learning our dance impacted our relationship and made it better. We learned to trust ourselves and each other. And it solidified a lot in our relationship going into our marriage. —Bryce O.
Steps to Love
See Our Packages Below
The Basic but Lovely
SIMPLE YET CAPTIVATING
Want to keep it simple, low key, short? Looking for the perfect balance between "easy to learn"and "exciting to watch"? Then this entry level package was made for you!
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The Wowza!
FANCY, AND OH SO EXTRA
Want to live out your Dancing with the Stars fantasy and twirl around the floor, then halfway through surprise everyone as you break out into a Saturday Night Fever disco extravaganza? Then let’s do this thing, have a crazy amount of fun, and come up with a dance that will have your guests cheering with amazement!
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The Family + Friends Dance
MORE PEOPLE. MORE FUN.
Want to surprise your guests with a family dance, wedding party performance, or flash mob? We’ll create a custom group dance that’s fun to learn, exciting to perform, and designed specifically for your people.
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The Wedding Dance Experience VIP
ONE SPECIAL DAY ALL ABOUT YOUR LOVE
A full day , immersive experience just for the two of you (with gourmet lunch and other delicious extras…) - to connect, deepen your emotional intimacy, and come out with a custom dance for your wedding day.
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up to a 3-minute dance to music chosen by you
five 50-minute private sessions
creation of custom steps and unique choreography (by Erin for you)
limited license to use choreography for your event
professional music editing for 1 song
practice videos to take home
comprehensive coaching, guidance and your own customized plan to make your wedding day dance floor moment the most stress free and successful it can be!
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up to a 4-minute dance to music chosen by you
eight 50-minute private sessions
creation of custom steps and unique choreography (by Erin for you)
limited license to use choreography for your event
professional music editing for up to 2 songs, combined
practice videos to take home
comprehensive coaching, guidance and your own customized plan to make your wedding day dance floor moment the most stress free and successful it can be!
To learn more about this, visit our FAQ’s
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up to a 90-second custom group dance
up to 2 songs
custom choreography created specifically for your group
choreography video provided in advance to help your group preview and practice the dance
four 30-minute private online group sessions via Zoom
professional music editing
recordings of each session to review and practice at home
custom dance production plan including entrances, exits, formations, transitions, cues, and wedding-day details
additional sessions available if your group would like more teaching or polishing time
No dance experience necessary. We’ll make the choreography approachable, fun, and tailored to your group so everyone can feel confident joining in.
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ONE SPECIAL DAY ALL ABOUT YOU TWO
up to a 3-minute dance to music chosen by you
full day session (6 hours)
BONUS lunch + guided couple’s connection session
creation of custom steps and unique choreography (by Erin for you)
limited license to use choreography for your event
professional music editing for 1 song
practice videos to take home
BONUS follow up 50-minute private session via Zoom
comprehensive coaching, guidance and your own customized plan to make your wedding day dance floor moment the most stress free and successful it can be!
To learn more about this, visit our FAQ’s
We would love to create your iconic moment!
Not Sure Which Wedding Dance Package Is Right for You?
Start with a 50-minute Intro Session for $295.
You don’t have to commit to a full package just yet.
Dip your toes in with a *50-minute intro session designed to help you both feel more confident, connected, and excited about your first dance.
Learn a few easy steps you can actually use
Get expert tips to avoid that stiff “middle school sway”
Discover how dancing together can actually be fun (yes, even if you’ve got two left feet)
Walk out with more clarity and less stress
This isn’t just dance. It’s a chance to see how working with us will feel—and why so many couples say this was their favorite part of wedding planning.
If you love it (and most do), your session fee rolls into a full package. Easy.
Let’s get you moving.
*This intro session is a one-time experience designed to give you a feel for the process and help you take the first step. Full packages—which include custom choreography, personalized instruction, music editing, practice videos and custom wedding day production plan—start at $1795. If you choose to continue, your $295 intro fee will be applied to the package that’s right for you.
“I highly, highly, highly recommend hiring Erin! The lessons are totally worth the cost, so please include them in your wedding budget. Do not skimp out on having a memorable first dance!”
—Puneet S.
“Worth every penny and was definitely a hit at our wedding! 10/10 recommend doing a choreographed wedding dance and 10/10 recommend Erin!!”
—Ashley D.
“Definitely hire Erin. She was amazing. You won’t regret it.”
—Lee N.
“Our journey with Erin to our first dance was so memorable because it was so fun and we created something together - for all those wondering whether to invest in their first dance, this is your sign to do so!!”
—Shreya K.